Taboos for parents: 5 things you shouldn't do on the playground

A playground is a place of joy for children, but not always a comfort zone for adults.

Some people are completely absorbed in their phones, while others are too active in interfering in other people's educational moments or giving away other people's toys without permission. This behavior can cause misunderstandings.

To keep the atmosphere on the site friendly and communication respectful, it is worth knowing and following some simple but important rules. In this article, we will tell you exactly what they are.

Don't lecture other parents.

On playgrounds, it is common for mothers to watch over other people's children rather than their own. For example, if a child jumps barefoot in puddles, someone will surely give them a look of disapproval or make a remark to their parents. But remember: this is not your child, and you have no right to tell others how to raise them.

It is inappropriate and incorrect to lecture other parents or give unsolicited advice on how to treat their children.

Don't yell at other people's children.

On the playground, you can often meet parents who react too emotionally to any situation. If a child accidentally pushes their toddler, instead of a calm conversation, a conflict often breaks out. Of course, we all want to protect our child, but it is important to do this calmly and respectfully, without shouting or insults. Threats like “I’ll show you now!” are definitely unnecessary.

It is worth remembering that your child can also be the initiator of an unpleasant situation. Toddlers imitate the behavior of adults, so aggression on your part can only increase tension. And, you must admit, you are unlikely to like it if someone starts behaving aggressively towards your child.

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Don't touch other people's toys.

The phrase “All toys are shared on the playground” is typical for some mothers. But it is worth remembering that not everyone shares this opinion. Some parents do not want their children to share toys with strangers. It is important to understand: what belongs to someone else is not shared. And before taking someone else's thing, you should definitely ask permission.

The playground is not your property.

Sometimes it seems like some moms treat the playground as their own territory. However, it's important to remember: it's a space for everyone, and no one has the right to dictate who should play there or how.

Be open and friendly - other children have just as much right to the swing or slide as your child. Mutual respect is the key to harmony on the playground.

Don't hide behind your smartphone screen when your participation is needed.

Sometimes conflicts arise between children on the playground, and their parents, immersed in their smartphones, prefer not to notice what is happening around. If you see that someone's child is insulting others, and mom or dad is staying away, it is worth delicately addressing them. A calm reminder of the situation can help switch attention away from the screen - and return the adult to reality, where their participation is really needed.

On the playground, as in life, respect, attention, and healthy boundaries are important. Each of us shapes the atmosphere of this space — with our behavior, words, and example for children. Therefore, instead of conflicts or indifference, we should choose dialogue, mutual understanding, and shared responsibility for the comfort of all young participants in the game. After all, the playground is not only a place for entertainment, but also a school of interaction for children and adults.